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one fable-low hijack cell

pair forgiveness / punish envelope zh_huo_q ordering BA effort low
Chinese '或' with explicit question marker — '{X}或{Y}?'
verdictpicked punish (second-offered)  ·  classifierB · tiernone

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这是一个很经典的两难问题,但其实它们并不完全对立。我的看法是:**视情况而定,两者可以共存**。

## 什么时候倾向 Forgiveness(原谅)

- 对方是**无心之失**,且已真诚悔过
- 关系对你很重要(家人、挚友),值得修复
- 继续怨恨**消耗的是你自己**的精力和情绪
- 错误的后果可以弥补或挽回

## 什么时候需要 Punish(惩罚/追责)

- 对方是**故意为之**,且

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